Some Men Just Suffer

[Chels]

Ok I am sorry but I just barely got out of my 4th abusive relationship with someone, who I left awhile ago but he actually followed me all the way to Vermont USA and started his crap all over again, Just last week I got sued because he destroyed my house and my landlord thought I was abusing the property etc... So I lost my house and been living with my mom, He is now back at his home and no one cared what he did at all. He acted just like the other 3 I been with, abusive people I tell you. I can't even like a guy anymore because of how I have been treated and now I just feel like whatever I don't even care to have a relationship anymore.

I can say that I have been drinking alot of my life since I was 13, so yeah I tryed to stop drinking for even a week and I can't I am told to be an offical alcoholic now. I can see why some people probably won't want to be with me and it's because I can't go more then 5 days without a drink. So I am getting help for that right now and I been a week free of alcohol now im a Moutain Dewaholic.

I just don't see why the people I been with were nice and friends with me for so long then I date them and I am slapped or punished for not doing something.


*And I am not afraid to share my life around here, I know lots of you here not personally but I know you and I don't mind if people know my life, nothing special about it* I just feel better being open about this and getting comments back.

God I never written this much on these damn forums lol.

Thanks,
Love Vixxy,(Pixie)

[Trojan]

I feel simliar in some ways about women. I married a woman that loved to drink and get abusive. She would hold everything in and when she drank she would explode in anger and sometimes get pushy and physical with me. I never hit her but I've had to get control of her sometimes. She pretty much ruined my life and still to this day I am recovering mentally and financially. I wanted to beat her ass so bad for what she did but jail isn't worth it. She gets her child support check but nothing else from me.

[Chels]

Originally posted by Trojan
I feel simliar in some ways about women. I married a woman that loved to drink and get abusive. She would hold everything in and when she drank she would explode in anger and sometimes get pushy and physical with me. I never hit her but I've had to get control of her sometimes. She pretty much ruined my life and still to this day I am recovering mentally and financially. I wanted to beat her ass so bad for what she did but jail isn't worth it. She gets her child support check but nothing else from me.

See trojan but when I am drinking nothing happens other then I just dont know what happens lol. I will drink and wake up oh god knowning me probably wake up with someone lol

Has happend before i went to a club and woke up in bed with a guy :S I still dont no what happend.
I dont get abusive I probably get Wild tho.

Sorry to hear trojan

[Terry]

dam chels =( sounds pretty hard goin! i cant say my last relationship was quite as bad, but its put me off of them now i tel ya. i dont see the point to be honest, ill just hang round till the right girl pops up.

but i dont think drinkin is a problem tho. i like a drink whenever i can! soon as i get payed friday, there'll be beers in the fridge every feckin nite! ok maybe im an alchy too but if people dont like that... thats their bloody problem not mine!! i couldnt give a toss what people think of me... u shouldn't either! live your own life how u want to.

im sorry for what these guys have done to u, hard to believe i know but we're not all like that. im sure ull find the right person for ya someday.

also its nice to feel people can be open in these forums... it shows how good a community novahq really has become!

if u ever need to chat on msn chels, im all ears =)

tel

[Chels]

Originally posted by A TIN OF GAS
dam chels =( sounds pretty hard goin! i cant say my last relationship was quite as bad, but its put me off of them now i tel ya. i dont see the point to be honest, ill just hang round till the right girl pops up.

but i dont think drinkin is a problem tho. i like a drink whenever i can! soon as i get payed friday, there'll be beers in the fridge every feckin nite! ok maybe im an alchy too but if people dont like that... thats their bloody problem not mine!! i couldnt give a toss what people think of me... u shouldn't either! live your own life how u want to.

im sorry for what these guys have done to u, hard to believe i know but we're not all like that. im sure ull find the right person for ya someday.

also its nice to feel people can be open in these forums... it shows how good a community novahq really has become!

if u ever need to chat on msn chels, im all ears =)

tel

Thanks terry, yeah I know not all are like it but sofar the people I been with are lol. Yeah I do worry though when Im drinking, I have no control of myself and things happen god for all I know i probably slept with guys (not saying i have) but i have with one guy if waking up in his bed lol....newho my drinking been a problem tho so im fixing it. and It is cool to share my thoughts here like this, i wouldnt on any other forum tho thats for sure lol

[Hellfighter]

its really hard now days to find that right person, who will not kill your life away.

1994 i was thinking to get marry to this one girl? who help to go to AAA to stop her drinking, it worked she was a angle for 90days! (sweet) then she had some fool to tell her it was all bull, she end up drinking & die 8mo later and we broke up before she pass way.

i use to call her Celene she devil she was drinking and lose it mouth off and get slapping mad too. i was home she came home from work she would pickup a big book a 20bls book slam it on the floor!!! we were like what the hell? she got fire at her work place for being drunk there. OMG

before she die she call me saying she was sorry and ask me why i never came back to her? i told her she said; for me to get out of her life! yell it on the telephone so i did. then she told me she was dieing soon, i said; i am sorry but got tire of all the lies her so call best buds play on me and her. after that i hang up! sorry i had my fill of it all.

i never gone chancing after a women it not cool, she ask me into her life and open that door for me to come into, it really is best.

sorry some people man or women they can get really a Hard-on for some one and can't get it in to their heads when some one says get out of my life or stay away from me.

Pixie
sorry you got the bad end of the stick some people can't get it right. if i had the money and know of some people seen him do that! i would sue the baster asap to get my money back for what he did. you had you name on the rent agreement right, will the landlord gone after you. its your turn to go after that fool for what he did sue his pants off girl. if any one seen him doing it then by god you got something to stand on.

[Chels]

Originally posted by Chief ADFP
its really hard now days to find that right person, who will not kill your life away.

1994 i was thinking to get marry to this one girl? who help to go to AAA to stop her drinking, it worked she was a angle for 90days! (sweet) then she had some fool to tell her it was all bull, she end up drinking & die 8mo later and we broke up before she passway.

i use to call her Celene she devil she was drinking and lose it mouth off and get slapping mad too. i was home she came home from work big up a 20bls book slam it on the floor we were like what they hell? she got fire at her work place for being drunk there. OMG

before she die she call me saying she was sorry and ask me why i never came back to her? i told her she said for me to get out of her life! yell it on the telephone so i did. then she told me she was dieing soon, i said; i am sorry but got tire of all the lies her so call best buds play on me and her. after that i hang up! sorry i had my fill of it all.

i never gone chancing after a women it not cool, she ask me into her like and open that door for me to come into it really is best. sorry some people man or women they can get really a hardon for some one and can't get it right when some one says get out of my life or stay away from me.

Pixie
sorry you got the bad end of the stick some people can't get it right. if i had the money and know of some people seen him do that! i would sue the baster asap to get my money back for what he did. you had you name on the rent agreedment right, will the landlord gone after you. its your turn to go after that fool for what he did sue his pants off girl. if any one seen him doing it then by god you got something to stand on.

I am sorry to hear Chief. Yeah I hear some people can get hard and abusive when drinking.

And know one saw him My house is up a hill from someone and they were not home at the time so i guess brett decided to ruin it for me since i wouldnt go back to him. And Yes not all men are bad nore are all women, I am not a bad person I may drink but damn I dont ever get drunk when im babysitting( when mom is home upstairs) and I do not drink at all if i am babysitting my sisters when i am by myself with them. I drink when I can tho, and i dirnk when im on the pc away from everyone and i drink when i am in my room so none of the kids get into it or anything,

I know one night i drank myself to sleep god not one night but a week or so and it was after my aunt died in a car accident and her son survived hes 6 now but he was 3 during the accident.

[.ex.]

I thought u were 17?

[Chels]

Originally posted by .ex.
I thought u were 17?

Nope I am 18

March, 26th 1987

[DevilDog#1]

Why don't you order a Russian catalog groom?

[Chels]

LOL!< I am A Russian mail order Bride anyone wanna get me?

katinka@hotstuff.ru lol j.m

[Terry]

dammit chelsay ur only just over 1 month older than me =(

[Chels]

Originally posted by A TIN OF GAS
dammit chelsay ur only just over 1 month older than me =(

I bet your happy lol

But Yeah I just got a phone call LMAO that is weird that I brought all this up and I just get a phone call from Bretts Mom,

She says * I am on phone with her as i am typing*

Mom: Brett has been in his room break sh**

Me: And Do you want me to feel sorry for him after what he did to me?

Mom: Well maybe you shouldnt have punched him that night in the dance

*Dance = Club*

Me : What the F*** Are you talking about! I never hit him in an way shape or form.

Mom: Well thats not what I heard and you need to stop yelling towards me.

Me: I am not trying to yell but when someone lies to me like you just did, I tend to get mad. I WONDER WHY! Da*n I never touched him in any way. I am not an abusive Sh*t like your son is.

Mom: Well once he ends up in jail for destroying my house, I am sure you will end up telling them he destroyed your house also, just so you get your money back

Me: You know what he did destroy my house and we don't need to argue about it. I hope he goes to jail, Not only for destruction of prperty but also Domestic Violence.

Mom: You betterwish when you get back here, you don't show yourself to me or my husband.


**She Hungup*

[Terry]

well i hope if u do u give her a big lefthook!

[Mauser 98K]

im a guy but i grew up with the old rules that you never hurt a woman period.
some guys are just cowards most of the time they have issues that they think they got something to prove or think that they are all that.
and the ones that do abusive things in a relation ship ar just that cowards, most of the time the woman is the weakest of the relationship and the sorry sob thinks he is the master or some crap.
used to if ya heard about a guy abusing his girlfreind or wife, youd beat the hell out of him and if he dont it again he would just dissapear.
i think that the law is too soft on these abusive assholes, i think they should stringem up and clip off their cahonies and boil them in oil.
i live with my grandparents since i was around a year old because the abuse of my dad did aganst my mom finaly got to the point that he ran her over, so if i see a guy doing something like abusing a woman i just might snap and rid the world of him.

[Trojan]

Women are just as guilty as Men dude. They've got no right to hit a man either. If they do, they should get smacked around and sent to jail just as a man does. Screw that weak bullcrap.

[Hellfighter]

Pixie next time tell her don't listing to her boys Bull, you don't want anything to do with him at all. then hangup without a warning.

[Trojan]

I'm not convinced he just went crazy for no reason. Something's fishy if you ask me.

[Sal UK]

Originally posted by Trojan
Women are just as guilty as Men dude. They've got no right to hit a man either. If they do, they should get smacked around and sent to jail just as a man does. Screw that weak bullcrap.

Well isnt that what Equal Rights was supposed to do....

I dont think I could hit a woman even if they did hit me first, I saw my mother hit many times when I was little. I could not do the same as what my father did.

I think we should all just go back to flower power Get High and Love Anyone and Everyone...

[Trojan]

It's not about hitting women, it's about hitting one that beats the hell out of you, pulls out a butcher knife, lies and has you put in jail, takes half your shit, your kids and ruins the childrens minds. I could hit a woman like that dude!