I need HELP..............

[@SS*PiNoY*]

OK heres the deal i cant get my BHD to update i bought it yesterday and played a few multiplayer games not many problems..............but today i hear there is a update so i try to update my game and it just sits there and tries to contact update server doesnt ever actually contact it. Also now when i play mulitiplayer server i always get CIs even though i have good ping rates, and the CIs r never ending i have to leave and go back i havnt been able to finish a map yet. Ant ideas? Please help me im ready to break my BHD cd in half.