ip4lw download can be found in delta 3 >utilities on the main page of this site.
It shows the ip number of the server and locks it in as a favorite so next time u want to play that server it is there. It also shows the ping of the game. DF2/3 Favorates is another program the same (but even shows what map is being played)
78 ping is great i ping my isp at 195.