[Hellfighter]

did you disable the windows option?
auto-restart?

your firewall in stealth mod and anti-port scan enable? firewall maybe set to high medium range is better for games.

if the stealth mod or anti-portscan is enable disable them game will work 100% better.

dailup users will always have a high ping its the server not you then. if your using a dailup connection disable any software running in the back ground that maybe downloading items like updates or downloading files. you can't be playing the game and downloading items at same time you be kickout always for high pings.