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Originally posted by MuffinMan
may sound corny, but i have been here before...
take her out on a walk, or somewhere not public, somewhere where the both of you can talk in private... explain to her that your there for her, and that you want her to explain to you what the problem is, then explain to her how she should stop drinking, and smoking... and that no matter what happens youll be there for her.
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have already done that m8.. twice i think, but with no effect
Thanks for your post BD
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We have also tried alternative medicines from a Chinese herbalist which although the treatment was expensive my son seemed to benefit more from that than from the perscription medicine he takes so that might be an avenue of approach you could think about BB.
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you mentioned the chinese herbalist stuff, how much more expensive is it?
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Originally posted by ^Atreyu
Tell her that if she doesn't get help and stop her ways you are going to leave her. If she cares about you enough, she will do it.
If not, then its not worth the trouble to stay with her.
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very bad idea, will make her worse and will make me feel like
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the next week should be interesting because he mum isn't giving her any money this week (simply because she cant afford to give her it due to Xmas) so for 1 week she wont be able to get drink, so either 1 of 2 things will happen.. ask me for money, my reply will be "get stuffed", or she will stop